Ah! well, that's just a case of ignorance really, not knowing all the controls of her car?
Mind you, light controls on all cars are much the same, despite the amount of different makes and models.
I can remember the dip switch on my Dads old Austin A70, was a button on the left hand side of the floor next to the clutch.
How many people bother to read their handbooks in the first place? My 09 car is supposedly the same model as my previous 54 car, but there are a few subtle differences in how the controls function; even if they look the same.
Your 'dip and switch' comments take me back a ways, Smudger. My first car (1938 Standard 9) had the floor-mounted dip-and-switch. There was a heavy solenoid unit in the L/H headlight which, when 'dipped', switched off the R/H headlight and the clunk could be heard inside the car as the whole reflector/bulb assembly flipped to a left-and-down position.
In those days it was easier to spot a badly aligned lamp, because the switched-off R/H headlight clearly indicated that dipped beam had been selected.
I often wonder if todays cars would be better if the R/H headlight was extinguished on dipped beam, but improved sidelights fitted to avoid the risk of the car being mistaken for a motorcycle.
Then, certainly on unlit rural roads, slower speeds would be necessary for safety, and I can't see that being popular with todays point-and-go brigade.